For tasting, we are heathens - mostly small dessert wine glasses or Mexican mini-snifters. My favorite, however, is an old-fashioned pewter Jefferson cup that I've been using for 40 years - it works! Weekend before last, I finally bit the bullet and drove the 80 miles round-trip to Total Wine to pick up bottles of Seales 10 and Doorly's 5 and XO. As a reward for tenacity, I also picked up a bottle of MGXO, which I normally reserve for cheap duty-frees.
We tasted the Seales and the Doorly XO together: Pat being terse said the Seale's smelled and tasted like raunchy Irish (but liked it, being of the green herself) and really liked the Doorly for its sweeter and more rounded flavors.
My immediate impression of the Seales was the scent of well tended harness leather and Spanish cedar (Sue's cigar box?). And, yes, before the clove (light cinnamon?) kicks in later, it is a bit reminiscent of some (decidedly not raunchy) older, rarer and FAR more expensive Irish whiskeys. The mouth feel is excellent, with a clear finish, some lingering pepper on the back of the tongue and the ever pleasant mild tingle of gums and tongue. In its distinct lack of excessive sweetness in either aroma or taste, this rum is unique to me - and I like it A LOT!
The Doory's XO was a little tougher for me. The strong honey scent with some pleasant, sweetly floral aroma (orange blossom? nah - not that sweet) and subsequent island spices. The taste was not as sweet as I expected and gave, if I recall, additional spice release. What I was not thrilled with was a somewhat bitter (acrid?) finish that cleared only slowly. I guess this is due to rather more residual sugars than I prefer which coat the palate and don't let go. (I'd love other thoughts on this).
Subsequent tasting with a bit of ice greatly diminished that effect and increased my enjoyment of the XO.
As we explore more rums, I'm starting to see that they can be as individual in preference as malts. An example is El Dorado 12 - Pat loves its sweetness and aroma. I find it cloying in scent and palate feel (actually initial flavor is ok). Might be ok with tonic, but that's an expensive R&T.
I've only tried the Doorly's 5 on the rocks after a not-so-great day and found it entirely drinkable an par with, but a bit more complex than my go-to cheap rum: Flor de Caña 4.
The MGXO is as I recalled - a fine liquor reminiscent of certain substances with which I toyed in my youth (ahem). It will vary with what you bring to it! Sue don't try to parse it - It'll be different next time

Those are my thoughts for the moment. Feel free to respond to enlighten me, provide standard terms where I fumbled to describe flavors and scents, or just to declare me a clueless idiot - it wouldn't be that first time and I always keep my flame-thrower handy
